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Daddy's roommate
First published 1990 · 32 pages
A gentle, matter-of-fact celebration of everyday family life that proves love is the only ingredient that truly matters.
What it feels like
Reading this book feels like stepping into a sunlit, perfectly ordinary weekend afternoon. It is a slice-of-life picture book that wraps the reader in a comforting blanket of domesticity, where the most radical element is simply how mundane and happy everything is. The narrative moves at a steady, reassuring pace, pairing simple, declarative sentences with bright, comic-style watercolor illustrations that capture the joyful minutiae of chores, zoo trips, and shared meals. There is no conflict or angst here, only a gentle, earnest insistence that families come in many shapes. It delights parents, educators, and young children who are looking for a warm, straightforward mirror of diverse family life, leaving everyone with a lingering sense of safety and unconditional acceptance.
- Mood
- warm
- comforting
- domestic
- safe
- Tone
- matter-of-fact
- earnest
- gentle
- positive
- Pace
- steady
- Themes
- family diversity · unconditional love · everyday domesticity · acceptance
- The writing
- The sentences are simple, declarative, and unadorned, prioritizing clarity and gentle reassurance for a young audience.
- The arc
- The narrative glides through ordinary, happy routines before landing on a deeply reassuring affirmation of love.
- Who it's for
- Caregivers and educators seeking a warm, straightforward story to help young children understand and celebrate diverse family structures.
Content notes
- divorce (background)
About the book
From School Library Journal: "Preschool-Grade 2 -- A first title in a new line of books for children with homosexual parents, told in a straightforward manner. A young boy describes his father's relationship with his roommate, Frank (they "live together, work together, eat together, sleep together..."), and his own relationship with these men -- shopping, gardening, and enjoying the zoo, beach, movies, etc. He believes that "being gay is just one more kind of love. And love is the best kind of happiness." The tone throughout the book is positive, and the boy has healthy, affectionate bonds with the adults in his life. There is no mention of bitterness or possible criticism from others. Bright, framed watercolours in an almost comic-book style portray the relationships with a light touch.
Description from Open Library.
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