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Managing Humans
380 pages
A wry, trench-warfare survival guide to the messy, unpredictable business of leading brilliant but difficult people.
What it feels like
Reading this book feels like grabbing a beer with a veteran Silicon Valley engineering director who has seen it all and lived to tell the tale. The pace is brisk and episodic, built on punchy, blog-style chapters that dive straight into the chaotic reality of tech management. The mood is a blend of wry cynicism and deep empathy for the brilliant, dysfunctional humans who build software. Lopp's prose is highly conversational, stripping away corporate jargon in favor of sharp metaphors and candid, sometimes hilarious anecdotes about thrown chairs and disastrous meetings. It is an incredibly reassuring read for new managers or tech leads who feel overwhelmed by the sudden shift from writing predictable code to wrangling unpredictable people, offering a grounded sense of camaraderie and hard-won wisdom.
- Mood
- energetic
- relatable
- chaotic
- reassuring
- Tone
- wry
- pragmatic
- conversational
- humorous
- candid
- Pace
- brisk
- Themes
- navigating corporate dysfunction · the psychology of engineers · leadership under pressure · translating between technical and business minds · the absurdity of office politics
- The writing
- Punchy, blog-style, and highly conversational, relying heavily on colorful anecdotes and sharp, straight-shooting metaphors.
- The arc
- Moves from the overwhelming chaos of tech industry dysfunction to a grounded sense of hard-won leadership confidence.
- Who it's for
- Software engineers stepping into management roles and tech leaders trying to survive the chaotic human element of Silicon Valley.
Content notes
- workplace stress
- corporate dysfunction
About the book
The humor and insights in the 2nd Edition of Managing Humans are drawn from Michael Lopp's management experiences at Apple, Netscape, Symantec, and Borland, among others. This book is full of stories based on companies in the Silicon Valley where people have been known to yell at each other and occasionally throw chairs. It is a place full of dysfunctional bright people who are in an incredible hurry to find the next big thing so they can strike it rich and then do it all over again. Among these people are managers, a strange breed of people who, through a mystical organizational ritual, have been given power over the future and bank accounts of many others. Whether you're an aspiring manager, a current manager, or just wondering what the heck a manager does all day, there is a story in this book that will speak to you—and help you survive and prosper amongst the general craziness. Lopp's straight-from-the-hip style is unlike any other writer on management. He pulls no punches and tells stories he probably shouldn't. But they are massively instructive and cut to the heart of the matter whether it's dealing with your boss, handling a slacker, hiring top guns, or seeing a knotty project through to completion. This second editions expands on the management essentials. It will explain why we hate meetings, but must have them, it carefully documents the right way to have a 1-on-1, and it documents the perils of not listening to your team. Writing code is easy. Managing humans is not. You need a book to help you do it, and this is it.
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