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Stick Figure

240 pages

A sharp, unsettlingly relatable glimpse into the mind of a precocious girl navigating the toxic perfectionism of 1970s Beverly Hills.

What it feels like

Reading this memoir feels like sneaking a look at your smartest, most observant friend's diary, only to watch the entries slowly darken. The brisk, episodic format makes it incredibly hard to put down, pulling you into the sun-drenched but emotionally hollow world of 1970s Beverly Hills. The narration is anchored by a precocious, wry voice that highlights the absurdity of adult vanity while simultaneously falling victim to it. It is a deeply claustrophobic and unsettling experience to witness a child's logic twist into a life-threatening obsession, yet the candid prose keeps the tone from becoming entirely bleak. It will resonate deeply with anyone who has ever felt the crushing weight of societal expectations or navigated the fraught transition from childhood to adolescence.

Mood
  • unsettling
  • poignant
  • claustrophobic
  • sharply nostalgic
Tone
  • wry
  • observant
  • vulnerable
  • candid
  • precocious
Pace
brisk
Themes
toxic diet culture · coming-of-age pressures · illusion of perfection · mother-daughter friction · loss of innocence
The writing
Deceptively simple and highly accessible, perfectly capturing the authentic, hyper-observant voice of a 1970s preteen.
The arc
Begins with sharp, naive observations of adult hypocrisy and descends into a terrifying obsession before reaching a tentative, hard-won clarity.
Who it's for
Readers who appreciate candid, darkly funny, and deeply personal memoirs about mental health, family dysfunction, and the pressures of girlhood.
Content notes
  • anorexia nervosa
  • disordered eating
  • fatphobia
  • hospitalization
  • emotional neglect

About the book

After happening upon the diary she kept when she was 11 years old, Gottlieb was moved to publish this chronicle of her struggle with anorexia nearly 20 years after she wrote it. In the late 1970s, she lived with her parents and brother in Beverly Hills, where Gottlieb's loneliness and concern about looking attractive to boys swiftly transformed into an obsession with dieting, although she had never been overweight. In her diary entries, she presents her father as a successful but emotionally withdrawn stockbroker, and her mother as a controlling airhead whose major concerns were her appearance and shopping. Gottlieb's parents became very alarmed, however, when their daughter, who believed that even smelling food would make her gain weight, kept refusing to eat. They took her to their family physician and then to a therapist who hospitalized her for several months when her condition continued to deteriorate. Though it is clear that Gottlieb, who is a regular contributor to Salon, has polished her childhood diary, her descriptions of preteen vulnerability and self-consciousness ring true--for example, when she recounts how, at lunchtime one day, her popularity skyrocketed because she could figure out a diet plan for every girl. In the context of the daunting (though unfootnoted) statistic Gottlieb cites, that ""50% of fourth grade girls in the United States diet, because they think they're too fat,"" her diary offers haunting evidence of what little progress we have made.

Description from Open Library.

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