Books like Asking about sex and growing up

A reassuring, straightforward guide that answers the awkward questions of growing up with clarity and warmth. These 12 books are the closest matches in mood, pace and themes, with what each one shares with Asking about sex and growing up.

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What's the Big Secret?
Laurie Krasny Brown · 1997
A gentle, straightforward guide that transforms a potentially awkward conversation into a safe, natural exploration of growing up.
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- safe
- open
- reassuring
- informative
02
Tell me why
Arkady Leokum
A gentle, straightforward guide that answers natural childhood questions about love, sex, and babies with clarity and care.
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- safe
- educational
- reassuring
- straightforward
03
Just for boys
Matt Crossick
A reassuring, no-nonsense roadmap through the awkwardness of growing up.
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- reassuring
- straightforward
- informative
- earnest
04
It's Perfectly Normal
Robie H. Harris
A warm, funny, and deeply reassuring guide that takes the fear and shame out of growing up.
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- safe
- comforting
- reassuring
- non-judgmental
05
The Guide To Getting It On!
Paul Joannides · 1998
A warm, witty, and exhaustively comprehensive encyclopedia of human pleasure that feels like getting advice from a brilliant, entirely unshockable friend.
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- educational
- reassuring
- non-judgmental
06
How to talk to girls
Alec Greven · 2008
A charmingly earnest, bite-sized guide to romance through the unfiltered, pragmatic lens of a nine-year-old boy.
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- earnest
07
What girls are made of
Elana K. Arnold
A raw, blood-and-bone exploration of teenage girlhood that tears down the myth of unconditional love.
Feels:
- aching
- claustrophobic
- provocative
08
This Book is Gay
James Dawson
A witty, warm, and radically candid handbook for navigating the messy, joyful realities of queer identity.
Feels:
- welcoming
- upbeat
- affirming
09
What's happening to me?
Peter Mayle · 1975
A candid and reassuring guide that demystifies the awkward and confusing physical changes of growing up.
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- educational
- reassuring
10
The complete courtship
Nancy L. Van Pelt · 1982
A vintage, earnest guide to navigating romance through the lens of traditional Christian values and structured intentionality.
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- earnest
11
The joy of sex
Alex Comfort · 2003
A frank, celebratory, and warmly authoritative guide that treats physical intimacy as a joyful, lifelong culinary art.
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- non-judgmental
12
Sexing the Body
Anne Fausto-Sterling
A rigorous, paradigm-shifting exploration that dismantles the binary understanding of human biology.
Feels:
- intellectually rigorous
- challenging
- revelatory

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