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A witty, bite-sized manual for navigating modern life with a dash of old-school swagger. These 12 books are the closest matches in mood, pace and themes, with what each one shares with Esquire's The New Rules for Men.

  • urbane
  • clubby
  • confident
  • relaxed
  1. 01

    The Rules of Love

    Richard Templar

    A structured, practical guide to cultivating deeper and more fulfilling interpersonal connections.

    Feels:
    • reflective
    • grounded
    • hopeful
  2. 02

    The way of men

    Jack Donovan

    A blunt, unapologetic manifesto that strips away modern comforts to examine the primal roots of male identity and tribal survival.

    Feels:
    • restless
    • defiant
    • primal
  3. 03

    Choosing Civility

    P. M. Forni

    A gentle, grounding manual for navigating the modern world with grace, empathy, and intentional kindness.

    Feels:
    • grounding
    • calm
    • uplifting
  4. 04

    The new male sexuality

    Bernie Zilbergeld

    A compassionate, myth-busting guide that trades impossible fantasies for the liberating reality of authentic intimacy.

    Feels:
    • reflective
    • grounding
    • hopeful
  5. 05

    How to attract anyone, anytime, anyplace

    Susan Rabin · 1993

    An encouraging, practical guide to navigating social situations with newfound confidence and resilience.

    Feels:
    • optimistic
    • approachable
    • uplifting
  6. 06

    Models

    Mark Manson

    A blunt, no-bullshit guide to building genuine confidence and connection through radical vulnerability.

    Shares:
    • conversational
  7. 07

    The way of the superior man

    David Deida · 1997

    A provocative, spiritually charged manual for navigating the tensions of purpose, passion, and modern masculinity.

    Feels:
    • contemplative
    • intense
    • challenging
  8. 08

    The fine art of small talk

    Debra Fine

    A warm, practical toolkit for turning awkward silences into meaningful connections.

    Feels:
    • optimistic
    • empowering
    • lighthearted
  9. 09

    Never eat alone and other secrets to success

    Keith Ferrazzi

    An energizing playbook that transforms the dread of networking into a genuine celebration of human connection and mutual generosity.

    Feels:
    • energizing
    • optimistic
    • sociable
  10. 10

    The Art of the Good Life

    Rolf Dobelli

    A brisk, practical toolkit for navigating the complexities of happiness and success.

    Feels:
    • reflective
    • uplifting
    • focused
  11. 11

    Science of Attraction

    Patrick King

    A pragmatic, science-backed toolkit for decoding the mysteries of human chemistry and romantic connection.

    Shares:
    • self-improvement
  12. 12

    Straight Talk, No Chaser

    Steve Harvey

    A frank, conversational guide that offers unfiltered advice on navigating the complexities of romance and male psychology.

    Shares:
    • authoritative
    • conversational

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