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Books like Holding the man

An intimate, heart-wrenching memoir that captures the enduring power of love in the shadow of a devastating epidemic. These 12 books are the closest matches in mood, pace and themes, with what each one shares with Holding the man.

  • tender
  • melancholic
  • bittersweet
  • intimate
  1. 01

    The Swimming-Pool Library

    Alan Hollinghurst · 1994

    An impeccably composed, darkly erotic elegy for a lost era of aristocratic privilege and gay life.

    Feels:
    • enthralling
    • chillingly clear
    • privileged
  2. 02

    A single man

    Christopher Isherwood

    A sharply observed, deeply moving portrait of a single day in the life of a man carrying the invisible weight of profound grief.

    Shares:
    • melancholic
    • intimate
  3. 03

    Torch song trilogy

    Harvey Fierstein

    A fiercely funny and deeply moving exploration of love, loss, and the radical act of demanding respect for who you are.

    Shares:
    • bittersweet
    • intimate
    • earnest
  4. 04

    Close to the Knives

    David Wojnarowicz · 1991

    A raw, scathing, and sublimely humorous collection of essays that serves as a fierce personal testimony of queer survival and artistic defiance.

    Feels:
    • raw
    • defiant
    • intense
  5. 05

    The hours

    Michael Cunningham · 1998

    A luminous, deeply interior meditation on the quiet tragedies and fleeting beauties of a single ordinary day.

    Shares:
    • melancholic
    • intimate
  6. 06

    Faggots

    Larry Kramer · 1978

    A frantic, sweat-soaked descent into 1970s gay hedonism that masks a desperate, aching plea for true love.

    Feels:
    • hedonistic
    • chaotic
    • desperate
  7. 07

    Two Boys Kissing

    David Levithan

    A tender, generation-spanning embrace that connects the ghosts of the past to the defiant joy of the present.

    Shares:
    • tender
    • bittersweet
    • earnest
    • reflective
  8. 08

    Dirt music

    Tim Winton

    An earthy, introspective exploration of womanhood and the quiet rhythms of midlife.

    Shares:
    • earnest
    • reflective
  9. 09

    Less

    Andrew Sean Greer

    A sparkling, globe-trotting comedy of errors about outrunning heartbreak and accidentally stumbling into grace.

    Shares:
    • tender
    • bittersweet
  10. 10

    How to Survive a Plague

    David France

    An urgent, intimately reported chronicle of the fierce defiance and grassroots science that fought back against a devastating epidemic.

    Shares:
    • intimate
  11. 11

    Giovanni's Room

    James Baldwin · 1993

    A devastating, beautifully written confession of doomed love and the tragic cost of denying one's own heart.

    Shares:
    • melancholic
  12. 12

    Distress

    Greg Egan

    A dizzying, hyper-intellectual near-future thriller that weaponizes theoretical physics to induce existential vertigo.

    Feels:
    • paranoiac
    • cerebral
    • dizzying

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