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Books like How to be a person

A profane, hilarious, and surprisingly practical survival guide for the messy transition into adulthood. These 12 books are the closest matches in mood, pace and themes, with what each one shares with How to be a person.

  • chaotic good
  • gritty
  • boisterous
  • unfiltered
  1. 01

    Bonk

    Mary Roach

    A hilarious, unapologetic romp through the awkward and fascinating science of human sexuality.

    Shares:
    • irreverent
    • wry
  2. 02

    The defining decade

    Meg Jay

    A compassionate but firm wake-up call that transforms the overwhelming ambiguity of early adulthood into an actionable roadmap.

    Feels:
    • motivating
    • reflective
    • empowering
  3. 03

    This is water

    David Foster Wallace · 2009

    A short, sharp shock of empathy that reframes the crushing boredom of daily adult life into an opportunity for profound connection.

    Shares:
    • wry
  4. 04

    Shrill

    Lindy West

    A hilarious, battle-tested manifesto for taking up space and refusing to apologize for it.

    Shares:
    • wry
  5. 05

    The Commitment

    Dan Savage · 2005

    A laugh-out-loud, deeply personal exploration of what it means to tie the knot when you've spent your life untangling the rules.

    Shares:
    • irreverent
    • wry
  6. 06

    We are Never Meeting in Real Life

    Samantha Irby

    A wildly funny, unapologetically messy romp through the indignities of adulthood and the human body.

    Shares:
    • irreverent
    • wry
  7. 07

    Where you go is not who you'll be

    Frank Bruni

    A reassuring dismantling of the college admissions myth that offers an empathetic path out of academic anxiety.

    Feels:
    • reflective
    • grounding
    • hopeful
  8. 08

    Sex, Drugs, and Cocoa Puffs

    Chuck Klosterman

    A hyper-caffeinated, wildly entertaining deep dive into the profound philosophical truths hidden inside our trashiest pop culture.

    Shares:
    • irreverent
    • wry
  9. 09

    Furiously Happy

    Jenny Lawson

    A wildly tangential, laugh-out-loud manifesto on fighting crippling depression with weaponized absurdity.

    Shares:
    • irreverent
  10. 10

    I was told there'd be cake

    Sloane Crosley

    A wry and hilarious celebration of well-intentioned haplessness in the modern city.

    Shares:
    • wry
  11. 11

    Chelsea Chelsea bang bang

    Chelsea Handler

    A brisk, laugh-out-loud exploration of the ridiculous side of relationships, childhood, and navigating adulthood.

    Feels:
    • lighthearted
    • comedic
    • energetic
  12. 12

    Esquire's The New Rules for Men

    Esquire

    A witty, bite-sized manual for navigating modern life with a dash of old-school swagger.

    Shares:
    • wry

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