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A raw, crystalline meditation on the shattering physical reality of losing a beloved parent. These 12 books are the closest matches in mood, pace and themes, with what each one shares with Notes on Grief.

  • sorrowful
  • tender
  • contemplative
  • heavy
  1. 01

    We Should All Be Feminists

    Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie

    A warm, lucid, and deeply personal invitation to rethink the way we raise our children and view ourselves.

    Shares:
    • reflective
  2. 02

    The Death of Vivek Oji

    Akwaeke Emezi

    A tender, devastating portrait of a fiercely beautiful spirit blooming in secret, framed by the profound grief of those left behind.

    Shares:
    • sorrowful
    • tender
    • intimate
  3. 03

    Stay with me

    Ayobami Adebayo

    A devastating, fiercely intimate portrait of a marriage buckling under the unbearable weight of secrets and the desperate hunger for a child.

    Shares:
    • intimate
  4. 04

    Option B

    Sheryl Sandberg

    A compassionate, research-backed lifeline for navigating the darkest chapters of life and slowly learning how to breathe again.

    Shares:
    • reflective
    • vulnerable
  5. 05

    Blue nights

    Joan Didion

    A haunting, twilight meditation on the terrifying fragility of life, memory, and motherhood.

    Shares:
    • sorrowful
    • intimate
  6. 06

    The cost of living

    Deborah Levy

    A vibrant, urgent reflection on dismantling the social hierarchies that diminish women, in pursuit of a life lived with meaning, pleasure, and ultimate freedom.

    Shares:
    • contemplative
    • reflective
  7. 07

    The Thing Around Your Neck

    Chimamanda Ngozi Adidchie

    A deeply empathetic and sharply observed exploration of displacement, longing, and the quiet collisions between two worlds.

    Shares:
    • intimate
  8. 08

    Grief is the thing with feathers

    Max Porter

    A surreal, poetic, and darkly funny exploration of the chaotic shape that mourning takes in a shattered home.

    Shares:
    • tender
    • intimate
    • raw
  9. 09

    Dear Ijeawele, or A Feminist Manifesto in Fifteen Suggestions

    Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie

    A warm, fiercely intelligent letter from a brilliant friend offering a roadmap for raising a daughter in a complicated world.

    Shares:
    • intimate
  10. 10

    Minor Feelings

    Cathy Park Hong

    A razor-sharp, deeply vulnerable dissection of the dissonance between American optimism and the reality of marginalized existence.

    Shares:
    • intimate
    • vulnerable
  11. 11

    Priestdaddy

    Patricia Lockwood

    A wildly poetic, laugh-out-loud descent into the absurdities of a deeply eccentric Catholic upbringing.

    Shares:
    • tender
  12. 12

    What It Means When A Man Falls From The Sky: The most acclaimed short story collection of the year

    Lesley Nneka Arimah

    A dazzling, subversive collection that bends reality to explore the deep, sometimes unsettling ties of family, heritage, and love.

    Shares:
    • intimate

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