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Books like The friend

An intimate, psychologically rich portrait of shared grief and the profound, silent bond between a mourning woman and a traumatized dog. These 12 books are the closest matches in mood, pace and themes, with what each one shares with The friend.

  • isolated
  • grief-heavy
  • quiet
  • claustrophobic
  1. 01

    What Are You Going Through

    Sigrid Nunez

    An intimate, psychologically rich exploration of memory, empathy, and the profound bonds of female friendship.

    Shares:
    • quiet
    • introspective
  2. 02

    Grief is the thing with feathers

    Max Porter

    A surreal, poetic, and darkly funny exploration of the chaotic shape that mourning takes in a shattered home.

    Shares:
    • melancholic
    • tender
  3. 03

    My Year of Rest and Relaxation

    Ottessa Moshfegh

    A pitch-black, narcotic comedy about checking out of a superficial world to find a blank-slate salvation.

    Shares:
    • claustrophobic
  4. 04

    Forever, interrupted

    Taylor Jenkins Reid

    A bittersweet exploration of an electric, whirlwind romance colliding with sudden, profound grief.

    Shares:
    • melancholic
  5. 05

    I'm Thinking of Ending Things

    Iain Reid

    A claustrophobic road trip into the darkest, most surreal corners of the human psyche, where every thought feels like a trap.

    Shares:
    • claustrophobic
    • obsessive
  6. 06

    The female persuasion

    Meg Wolitzer

    A thoughtful, character-driven exploration of ambition, mentorship, and the paths we choose when our inner world suddenly lights up.

    Shares:
    • introspective
  7. 07

    No One Is Talking About This

    Patricia Lockwood

    A hyper-ironic scroll through the digital void that suddenly shatters into a profound meditation on embodied grief and love.

    Shares:
    • tender
  8. 08

    Dog Songs

    Mary Oliver

    A tender, sunlit meditation on the profound, uncomplicated love between humans and their canine companions.

    Shares:
    • tender
  9. 09

    All My Puny Sorrows

    Miriam Toews

    A devastating and intimate exploration of sisterhood, mental illness, and the agonizing limits of love.

    Shares:
    • melancholic
    • the weight of grief
  10. 10

    The Old Woman Who Named Things

    Cynthia Rylant

    A tender, tear-jerking exploration of loneliness and the brave, vulnerable choice to open your heart to love again.

    Shares:
    • quiet
    • melancholic
    • tender
  11. 11

    Big Friendship

    Aminatou Sow and Ann Friedman

    A rigorous, big-hearted love letter to the messy, essential work of keeping your best friends close.

    Feels:
    • intimate
    • validating
    • warm
  12. 12

    The Body Artist

    Don DeLillo · 2001

    A strange, atmospheric meditation on grief and the wilderness of time, set in a lonely coastal house.

    Feels:
    • lonely
    • eerie
    • atmospheric

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