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Love and Limerance
First published 1999 · 340 pages
A scholarly and deeply researched dissection of the overwhelming mechanics of romantic obsession.
What it feels like
Reading this book feels like stepping into a quiet, well-lit study to examine the most chaotic of human emotions under a microscope. It offers a steady, analytical pace that grounds the dizzying subjects of love and infatuation in rigorous academic research. The mood is highly intellectual and contemplative, stripping away the poetry of romance to look closely at the psychological mechanics beneath. With its structured prose and extensive references, the text provides a scholarly anchor for readers trying to make sense of romantic obsession. It will deeply satisfy those who prefer to process overwhelming feelings through objective analysis, offering a clinical but earnest framework for understanding the intense, all-consuming nature of human attachment.
- Mood
- contemplative
- intellectual
- reflective
- Tone
- analytical
- scholarly
- objective
- earnest
- Pace
- steady
- Themes
- psychology of infatuation · romantic obsession · mechanics of love
- The writing
- Structured and research-driven, utilizing academic rigor to dissect deeply emotional human experiences.
- The arc
- Moves from the chaotic, overwhelming experience of romantic infatuation toward a grounded, analytical understanding of human attachment.
- Who it's for
- Readers who want to intellectually deconstruct the overwhelming feelings of love and romantic obsession through a scholarly lens.
Content notes
- romantic obsession
About the book
Includes bibliographical references (p. 306-317) and index. Originally published: New York: Stein and Day, 1979. With new pref.
Description from Open Library.
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