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A hilarious, commiserating romp through the exhausting contradictions of desiring romance in a patriarchal world. These 12 books are the closest matches in mood, pace and themes, with what each one shares with How to Date Men When You Hate Men.

  • commiserating
  • lively
  • cynical-yet-hopeful
  1. 01

    We are Never Meeting in Real Life

    Samantha Irby

    A wildly funny, unapologetically messy romp through the indignities of adulthood and the human body.

    Shares:
    • wry
    • self-deprecating
  2. 02

    Shit, Actually

    Lindy West

    A hilariously sharp, feminist reexamination of the nostalgic movies we love, proving you can adore a cultural touchstone while still roasting its glaring flaws.

    Feels:
    • playful
    • nostalgic
    • critical
  3. 03

    Wow, No Thank You.

    Samantha Irby

    A laugh-out-loud, unapologetic ode to the exhaustion of getting older, leaving the house, and having a human body.

    Shares:
    • wry
    • self-deprecating
    • conversational
  4. 04

    Moi les hommes, je les déteste

    Pauline Harmange

    A brisk, unapologetic essay that flips the script on misandry, turning exhaustion with the patriarchy into a joyful rallying cry for sisterhood.

    Feels:
    • cathartic
    • fiery
    • intimate
  5. 05

    Chelsea Chelsea bang bang

    Chelsea Handler

    A brisk, laugh-out-loud exploration of the ridiculous side of relationships, childhood, and navigating adulthood.

    Feels:
    • lighthearted
    • comedic
    • energetic
  6. 06

    He's just not that into you

    Greg Behrendt

    A hilarious, tough-love intervention from a friend who refuses to let you settle for romantic breadcrumbs.

    Shares:
    • conversational
  7. 07

    Men Explain Things To Me

    Rebecca Solnit

    A sharp, validating intellectual toolkit that transforms everyday frustrations into a profound critique of systemic silencing.

    Shares:
    • wry
  8. 08

    Female Chauvinist Pigs

    Ariel Levy

    A sharp, journalistic dissection of pop culture that asks whether performing objectification is actually a trap disguised as empowerment.

    Shares:
    • sharp
  9. 09

    I was told there'd be cake

    Sloane Crosley

    A wry and hilarious celebration of well-intentioned haplessness in the modern city.

    Shares:
    • wry
    • self-deprecating
  10. 10

    You can't touch my hair and other things I still have to explain

    Phoebe Robinson

    A laugh-out-loud yet deeply affecting exploration of race, gender, and the absurdities of modern American culture.

    Shares:
    • sharp
  11. 11

    Men Who Hate Women

    Laura Bates

    An unflinching, deeply unsettling descent into the digital ecosystems where modern misogyny is weaponized.

    Feels:
    • chilling
    • dread-soaked
    • sobering
  12. 12

    On love

    Alain De Botton

    A devastatingly witty and intellectually astute dissection of the thrills, pitfalls, and philosophical absurdities of romantic love.

    Feels:
    • philosophical
    • exhilarating
    • melancholic

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