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A witty, shame-free roadmap to understanding male desire and cultivating deeper physical intimacy. These 12 books are the closest matches in mood, pace and themes, with what each one shares with He Comes Next.
- intimate
- open-minded
- curious
- empowering
- 01
She Comes First
Ian Kerner
A witty, shame-free masterclass in prioritizing female pleasure and cultivating deeper, more generous intimacy.
- 02
Mating in Captivity
Esther Perel · 2006
A provocative, paradigm-shifting exploration of why safety and desire are so often at odds in modern love.
- 03
How to Satisfy a Woman Every Time and Have Her Beg for More
Naura Hayden · 1983
A retro, enthusiastic, and highly direct manual dedicated to demystifying female pleasure and improving intimate communication.
- 04
The new male sexuality
Bernie Zilbergeld
A compassionate, myth-busting guide that trades impossible fantasies for the liberating reality of authentic intimacy.
- 05
Bonk
Mary Roach
A hilarious, unapologetic romp through the awkward and fascinating science of human sexuality.
- 06
The Multi-orgasmic Man
Mantak Chia · 1996
A practical, spiritually grounded manual that transforms the physical act of sex into an expansive practice of energy and connection.
- 07
Blow him away : how to give him mind-blowing oral sex
Marcy Michaels and Marie Desalle
A frank, reassuring guide that trades sexual guesswork for practical confidence.
- 08
The way of the superior man
David Deida · 1997
A provocative, spiritually charged manual for navigating the tensions of purpose, passion, and modern masculinity.
- 09
Becoming orgasmic
Julia Heiman and Joseph LoPiccolo
A compassionate, psychologically grounded guide to reclaiming bodily autonomy and sensual joy.
- 10
The Guide To Getting It On!
Paul Joannides · 1998
A warm, witty, and exhaustively comprehensive encyclopedia of human pleasure that feels like getting advice from a brilliant, entirely unshockable friend.
- 11
Women on Top
Nancy Friday
A candid, voyeuristic, and deeply validating plunge into the unfiltered erotic imaginations of women.
- 12
The way of men
Jack Donovan
A blunt, unapologetic manifesto that strips away modern comforts to examine the primal roots of male identity and tribal survival.











